Approaching Women Successfully, Best Guidelines

Hey you! Yes you! Welcome to my guide on approaching women.

I'm about to share all I know about how to approach women.

The thing with approaching women is that its mostly not about what you say. Approaching women is mostly about demonstrating certain things in your approach.

Its all about demonstrating to the woman 3 qualities, and they are: That are you safe, normal and not a stalker, secondly that you are a cool guy and thirdly that you are genuine. Mind you, I have spent years studying how to approach.

I have tried, seen and tested (even taught) every single method of approaching women on planet earth.

I have found out that 95% of the stuff out there is unnecessary fluff.

I've also found 5% of the stuff brings 95% of the results. What I am about to present to you is the 5% that brings 95% of the results.

These 3 are the key things to apply. And something else I really want to make clear is that the most important rule to have in mind is that everything is your responsibility.

If women don't see these 3 traits in you, it is your responsibility to change your approach until it works.

It doesn't matter for example if you think you're non-threatening, until women see you as non-threatening, its your responsibility to adjust your approach. 1.

You're not a threatThe number one thing women complain about when being approached, is “creepy guys”. What women think by this is a guy who is “weird, stilted or aggressive” in his approach.

The key to accomplishing this is acting like its the most normal thing in the world! If you feel odd about approaching a woman you don't know, you will act odd.

If you convince yourself its the most normal thing in the world, you'll come out all cool.

The secret here is to just act as if its an old friend. How do you approach a woman you recognize from many years back? Let's say its someone you went to high school with? How do you approach her? What expression and vibe do you have? This is how you want to approach all women! Its what I call the old-friends trick, and it works. With this trick, I always get great reactions in approaching women2.

You're not an asocial geekOne of the things that women find extremely unattractive is if you're socially unadjusted.

They can tell by the way you communicate and how you converse with them.

They can tell, just by the way you speak, if you have tons of friends, or you're a total dweeb. How do they accomplish this feat? How can they tell if you're the super-social guy, or an asocial dweeb? Simple: Its all how you talk, how you express yourself, where your eyes go. Now don't get paranoid and try to correct and control all these elements separately.

Its almost impossible to micro-manage all these little parts of communication.

In fact, some guys spend years studying ways and methods to appear cool around women by working on the little details. Some guys actually practice how to stand, how often to look at a woman, but its all to complex, and impossible to manage. And this is another problem to which I'll give a solution that almost sounds insulting.

Its a solution that you will not like because it seems too good to be true.

It seems like a joke. My solution to this problem is to simply become a cooler guy.

If you are a cooler person, you will come across as cool when approaching a woman. She will see you as a cool guy.

The trick to actually becoming cooler is to just build a cool lifestyle. Get rid of anything in your life that is boring, stupid or you hate doing. Get more and more activities and hobbies that are social and that you can brag or talk about. Stuff that you would be proud to admit you do in your spare time.

You will find over time you get more and more positive and cool around people.
3. Being sincere is a skillDo you ever get annoyed by the advice “just be yourself”? I know I used to, because its so vague and meaningless.

You see, being sincere and genuine is something you have to practice. Precisely because we've been conditioned against it so much. A super neat, easy trick I've found to accomplish this is again through just changing your mental focus. Most guys who come across as insincere, do so because they have insincere intent.

If you're talking to a woman and in the back of your mind you're plotting how to get something from her, you will come across as insincere.

The trick is to do the exact opposite. Make your only goal the following: “I'm just here to meet and get to know this woman, and see what she's like.

I'm also letting her see what I'm like.

If things go further, that's cool, but if not, that's cool too”. This kind of thinking relieves pressure and anxiety and makes you come across as sincere and genuine.
Dude, there's no reason you should be confused about how to approach .

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